如何跨越危機十字路口
比比吉·因德吉特·考爾·卡爾薩 (Bibiji Inderjit Kaur Khalsa) 主講
錫裡·辛格·薩希布·吉 (Siri Singh Sahib Ji) Yogi Bhajan 以其無限的智慧和對我們的愛，精心準備了一門特別的課程，幫助我們優雅地跨越危機十字路口：
這是一門為期一天的課程，由比比吉·因德吉特·考爾 (Bibiji Inderjit Kaur) 主講。她腳踏實地的常識、作為錫裡·辛格·薩希布·吉的妻子和妻子所展現的優雅、作為心理學家和諮詢師的專業訓練，以及作為錫克領袖的領導地位，都使她完全有資格主持一場令人難忘且鼓舞人心的研討會。
5月7日和8日的週末，我們很榮幸地邀請到比比吉來到科羅拉多州博爾德市。大多數同修，以及一些瑜珈學員和朋友都參加了這門課。
我們聚集在靜修中心的客廳裡，舒適地坐在鋪著羊皮的地板上，或坐在沙發和椅子上。
比比吉以幾句開場白開啟了課程，營造了一種輕鬆的氛圍，貫穿了一整天。
課程主題由西里·辛格·薩希布Yogi Bhajan 指定，包括婚姻規劃、性、金錢、定期靈修和承諾。
每個主題的講解方式都引導我們深入思考，分析我們的承諾，評估我們的價值觀，並認真審視那些極其敏感的問題。
八個小時裡，我們歡笑、哭泣、交談、傾聽、寫作和表演。
Bibiji 組織我們進行角色扮演，讓我們應對各種危機情況。例如，丈夫想要性生活而妻子不想要，就非常有趣。角色互換也很有趣。這一天充實而有意義，充滿了真誠、啟示和溫暖。時間過得太快了。
以下是一些學員的感言：
「太棒了…收穫頗豐！」— Madonna Kaur
「這是我經歷過的最舒適、最放鬆的課程。它讓我對正法和我的婚姻充滿感激。」——Jai Jeet Sangeet Kaur
「非常鼓舞人心，令人振奮。」— Sat Sundri Kaur
「它引發了我的內省和富有洞察力的內心對話。」— Har Kaur
「一次成長的經歷，也充滿了樂趣。」— Siri Jodha Singh
「這門課程就像一次療癒。」這不僅對我們個人意義重大，對整個團體也同樣重要。你上一次和你的同修坐下來，花一整天的時間談論敏感的個人問題，是什麼時候？正是比比吉的技巧和教導，才使得這一切得以優雅、愉快且充滿啟發地進行。
這是Siri Singh Sahib Ji與我們溝通的另一種方式。他了解我們的處境，即使他無法親自前來，他也為我們提供了提升自我的技術。我鼓勵大家充分利用他提供的資源。在博爾德，我們很高興自己做了這個決定。
20人以上的團體更佳。
瑜珈學員和靜修中心的友人都非常喜歡與虔誠的同修互動交流的機會。您可以聯絡阿爾伯克基的Gurbachan Kaur，電話：
(505)266-6374，安排Bibiji在您所在地區的課程。相信您也會為此感到高興。
— S.S. Kirpal Singh Khalsa
「人會死，但思想永存。」— 艾倫‧傑伊‧勒納 (1918-1986)
HOW TO CROSS THE CROSSROADS OF CRISES
A course by
Bibiji Inderjit Kaur Khalsa
Siri Singh Sahib Ji, in his infinite wisdom and love for us, has prepared a special course so that we may cross the crossroads of crises gracefully:
It is an all-day course, led by Bibiji Inderjit Kaur. Her down-to-earth common sense, her grace as a woman and wife of Siri Singh Sahib Ji, her training as a psychologist and counselor, and her position of leadership as Bhai Sahiba of Sikh Dharma eminently qualify her to conduct an unforgettable and inspiring workshop.
In Boulder, Colorado we were fortunate to have Bibiji with us the Weekend of May 7 and 8. Most sangat members, plus a number of yoga students and friends attended the course.
We gathered in the living room of the ashram and sat comfortably on the floor on sheepskins or on the sofas and chairs.
Bibiji opened the course with a few words, setting a relaxed tone which carried through the day.
Topics were assigned by the Siri Singh Sahib and included marriage planning, sex, money, sadhana. and commitment.
Each was presented in such a way that we had to probe deeply into our minds. analyze our commitments, assess our values and wrestle with highly sensitive issues.
Over the eight hours we laughed. cried, talked, listened, wrote and acted.
Bibiji put us through role plays where we had to deal with various crises situations. in which the husband wants sex and the wife does not, was lots of fun. Reversing the roles was also interesting. It was a rich day, full of honesty, revelation and warmth. It went by all too quickly.
Here are some quotes from some of
the participants:
"Amazing...so many revelations!"—
Madonna Kaur
"It was the coziest and most relaxed course that I've ever experienced. It left me grateful for the Dharma and my marriage."— Jai Jeet Sangeet Kaur
"Most confirming and up lifting."—Sat Sundri Kaur
"It provoked introspection and insightful inner dialog.*-Har Kaur
"A growing experience and lots of fun. Siri Jodha Singh
The course was therapy. not just for us as individuals, but also for the group as a whole. When was the last time you sat down with members of your sangat and talked about sensitive personal issues for a whole day? It was Bibiji's skill and training that let it occur with grace. merriment and inspiration.
This is one more way in which Siri Singh Sahib Ji is reaching out to us. He knows what we are going through and. even though he can not come himself. he has provided the technology for us to excel. I encourage everyone to take advantage of what he is offering. In Boulder. we were glad we did.
Groups of twenty or more are desirable.
Yoga students and friends of the ashram love the opportunity to interact with committed sangat members. You can contact Gurbachan Kaur in Albuquerque,
(505)266-6374. to schedule Bibiji's course in your area. You, too, will be glad you did.
-S.S. Kirpal Singh Khalsa
"Men die but an idea does not."
- Alan Jay Lerner (1918-1986)
選自 Keeping Up Connections 雜誌
3RD Quarter, 1988 p6
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