Yogi Bhajan 的話語：養育子女

 

為孩子做的十件事

1. 愛他們

2. 建立他們的自尊

3. 挑戰他們

4. 聆聽他們

5. 期待尊重

6. 給他們界線

7. 讓神成為他們生活的一部分

8. 培養他們的學習意識

9. 幫助他們具有社群心智

10. 放手讓他們自己走

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” You have never learned how to raise children because you have never been raised by parents as you should have been raised. A child never belongs to the parents as a branch does not belong to the trunk—but it needs the feed.That’s how you ruin your children. When they grow up independent, first thing, they would punch you and say goodbye to you because you try to control them. They tolerate it,
they have animosity. When they grow up, they totally go one hundred eighty degrees opposite.”

Yogi Bhajan 4/10/1991

 

你從來沒有學會如何撫養孩子，因為你從來沒有被父母，按照你應該被撫養的方式撫養。孩子永遠不屬於父母，就像樹枝不屬於樹幹一樣——但他需要餵養。接著，這就是你毀掉孩子的方式 ; 當他們長大獨立後，第一件事，因為你試圖控制他們，他們會回擊你並和你說再見，他們在容忍、有怨憎。當他們長大後，他們一百八十度反向大改變。

” Don’t give your child a fear of anything, let him not first be afraid of God, secondly not afraid of any mankind, thirdly not afraid of Mother Nature, fourthly, not afraid of the environments.” 

Yogi Bhajan 

不要讓孩子什麼都怕。第一讓他不怕神，第二不怕任何人，第三不怕野地自然，第四不怕周遭環境。

” What can you give to your child except the values of self-justice, self-identity and self-sovereignty? A child must be told in a practical way how to behave and must be treated to be self-sovereign. Otherwise you are absolutely not giving self-respect to that child.”

Yogi Bhajan 2/19/1985

除了自我正義、自我認同和自我主權的價值觀，你還能給孩子什麼？必須以實際的方式告訴孩子如何去作為，並且必須被視為他們的自主權。否則你絕對不是給孩子自我尊重。

 

” We use our children for security. Then our children use us for security,and life is a mess. Give children their own security; their security is Truth and God. Give them the true identity of themselves and you will have angels on this Earth. ”

Yogi Bhajan

我們利用我們的孩子來給自己安全感。然後我們的孩子也利用我們作為安全感，這樣的生活就會一團糟。給孩子屬於自己的安全感；他們的安全感就是真實和神。給他們自己的真實身份，你就會在這個地球上擁有天使。

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