以下是 Siri Singh Sahib、Yogi Bhajan 於 1987 年 7 月 7 日在 KWTC（卡爾薩女子訓練營）關於愛的主題的演講摘錄：
「 你有一種正向的愛。你也有負面的愛。你不能誤解你的負面的愛。負面的愛就是恨。負面的愛是不安全感。負面的愛就是嫉妒。所有你最憎恨的事情都是負面的愛。所有你最喜歡的東西 — 浪漫、夢想、白馬王子的到來和所有的點點點，這就是正向的愛。
首先，愛情是一種躁動的歇斯底里。你知道什麼是癔症嗎？你在做事，但事情並不在你的控制之下。你見過歇斯底里的人嗎？是這樣的。歇斯底里是指人們是在做事，但不知道自己在做什麼。
然後，第二階段是溝通。這就是建立頻率的地方。愛情的第三階段是：誰是愛人，誰是被愛之人？男女之間可以不用做什麼事。我很抱歉。如果真是這樣的話，兩個男人就不可能成為戀人，他們也不會有同性戀群體。所以第三階段是決定性的因素。誰是愛人，誰是被愛者？愛情有其獨特的性別。
一旦確定，下一步就是淨化。那是愛情最艱難的階段。淨化是指雙方都能清楚地看到對方，就像你在鏡子裡看到自己一樣。這就是愛變成恨的地方。淨化的行為是你們看到彼此看不見的地方。在此之前，誰是愛人的人，誰是被愛人呢？大約百分之八十的案例中這一點並不成立，因此誰愛誰就不了了之。在淨化的過程中，百分之九十五的人都會崩潰。這對人們來說非常困難，因為當你用愛淨化自己時，你就必須融合。世界上一切事物的合併都很容易，除了兩個小我。 小我的法則是它永遠不會融合。
當「我」活著的時候，「祢」永遠不會進來。「祢」進來的唯一辦法就是把「我」消滅掉。爭鬥發生在「我」和「祢」之間。鬥爭不是發生在兩個人之間的。所以，如果你們的戀情破裂了，請不要誤會。你無法保存它，因為你無法愛它。你無法愛它，因為你無法控制你的小我。如果你不能把小我放在一邊，你就無法在愛情中取得成功，句點。甚至不要嘗試。這是一種先天性的心靈癌症，對某些人來說，他們的小我主宰著這種癌症。所以，愛必須戰勝它。淨化階段是決定階段。
當你遠離「我」時，小我就會被消除。然後愛就被本我身份所理解。現有的敏感度、原始的敏感度，發展成最終的敏感度。因此，兩個人有一種敏感、一種行動、一種反應、一種感覺。他們之間有多少時間和距離並不重要。這就是終極之愛的狀態。」 – Yogi Bhajan，1987 年 7 月 7 日。
選自 KRI 提供的真實關係 DVD 系列
Here is an excerpt of a lecture by the Siri Singh Sahib, Yogi Bhajan at KWTC (Khalsa Women’s Training Camp) on July 7, 1987 on the topic of Love:
“You have a positive love. You have a negative love. You can’t misunderstand your negative love. Negative love is hatred. Negative love is insecurity. Negative love is jealousy. All the things you hate the most are negative love. All the things you like the most – the romance, the dream, prince charming coming and bah-bah-bah, it’s positive love.
First, love is a commotional hysteria. You know what hysteria is? You are doing things, but things are not under your control. Have you seen people in hysteria? It’s something like that. Hysteria is something where people do things but do not know what they are doing.
Then, the second stage is communication. That is where the frequency is established. The third stage of love is: who is the lover and who is the beloved? It doesn’t have anything to do with male and female. My apologies. Had that been the case, two men could not have been lovers and they would not have a gay or lesbian community. The third stage is the deciding factor. Who is the lover and who is the beloved? Love has its own genders.
Once that is established, then the further stage is purification. That’s the most difficult stage of love. Purification is when both see each other clearly, as you see yourself in the mirror. That is where love turns into hatred.
The act of purification is where you see the unseen of each other. Before that, who is the lover and who is the beloved? It is not established in about eighty percent of the cases, and the matter falls apart there. In the act of purification, ninety-five percent of people fall apart. It’s very difficult for people because when you purify yourself with love then you have to merge. Merger of everything in the world is easy, except for two egos. The law of ego is that it never merges.
When “I” lives, “Thou” will never come in. The only way for “Thou” to come in is that the “I” has to be eliminated. The fight is between “I” and “Thou.” The fight is not between two human beings. So if your love affair falls apart, don’t misunderstand. You can’t save it because you can’t love it. You can’t love it because you do not have the control on your ego. If you cannot put your ego to the side, you cannot succeed in love. Period. And don’t even try it. It’s an inborn cancer of the mind that, in some people, their ego rules. Therefore, love must defeat it. The stage of purification is the deciding stage.
One you get away from “I” then the ego gets eliminated. Then the love is understood by the Id. Existing sensitivity, original sensitivity, develops itself into ultimate sensitivity. Therefore, two people have one sensitivity, one action, one reaction and one feeling. It does not matter how much time and distance they have between themselves. And that is the state of Ultimate Love.” – Yogi Bhajan, 7/7/87.
from the Authentic Relationships DVD series offered through KRI
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