明月心滴: Relationships 論關係

2022年7月22日星期五

Yogi Bhajan 詩作 / 2022年 5月23日公開 / 詩，教導，引自Yogi Bhajan

All relationships are based on wisdom. 一切關係基於智慧，

All relationships are maintained by love . 一切關係以愛維持，

All relationships are nurtured by selfless service 一切關係由無私服務滋養，

All selfless service comes out of wisdom. 一切無私服務來自於智慧，

Whosoever breaks this cycle – 不論打破這循環的是誰 -

lives in pain, loneliness and misery. 將活在痛苦、孤獨與悲慘中。

When relationships break, 當關係破裂，

when relationships fail, 當關係失敗，

We suffer and agonize, rant and rail. 我們受苦、掙扎、怒吼、怨懟，

“How could it happen? Who is to blame?” 「這怎麼可能發生? 該責怪誰?」

We live in misery, loneliness and pain. 我們活在悲慘、孤單與痛苦中。

Limited egos are bound to conflict. 侷限的小我注定會衝突，

Egos destroy relationships quick. 小我則快速摧毀關係。

For any relationship to be a success, 任何關係要成功，

certain conditions have to be met. 必然符合的要件:

1. WISDOM is the base. Relationship starts here. 1、智慧是基石，關係自此展開。

Without wisdom, disaster is near. 若無智慧，災難已經不遠。

2. LOVE is the Sustainer, serves to maintain, 2、愛是支持，作為維護，

Overcomes adversity, sorrow and pain. 克服逆境、悲傷、痛楚。

LOVE is giving 100 percent 愛是百分百付出 –

– not “yours or mine” or “what will I get?” 並非「你的我的」或「我能得到甚麼」?

3. SELFLESS SERVICE comes next to nurture and grow 3、無私服務僅次於滋養與成長

Relationships thrive when both people know. 當兩人皆理解，關係便茁壯成長。

Without thought of reward, pleasure or gain, 不思回報、歡愉或利益，

Each gives to the other over and over again. 為彼此付出，一次又一次。

4. SELFLESS SERVICE comes out of WISDOM 4、無私服務源於智慧。

The Cycle is done 循環圓滿完成，亦即

When separate entities truly are one – 分離的兩者真正合一時 -

that’s RELATIONSHIP! 那才是關係 !

Only the wise understand the above – 唯有智慧能理解上述 -

It takes Wisdom to serve and Wisdom to love. 需有智慧才能服務、才能去愛。

本文摘自 StudentsofYogiBhajan 明月心滴歡迎轉載註明出處
中文翻譯：Jot Amandeep Kaur 心滴校稿

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