愛是人類行為的終極狀態，其內慈悲滿溢、仁慈主導。 7/7/1987 Yogi Bhajan
「 夫妻之間為什麼會吵架？因為他們從未試圖合而為一。他們仍然是住在同一屋簷下的兩個人。他們仍然是兩個人睡在一張床上。他們仍然是兩個人管理一個家。他們還是兩個；一個在開車，一個坐在一邊睡覺。但他們還沒有合而為一。婚姻就是二合一。」
世界上一切事物的融合都很容易，除了兩個小我。小我的法則是它永遠不會融合。當「我」活著的時候，「祢」永遠不會進來。「祢」進來的唯一辦法，就是把「我」消滅掉。打架是在「我」和「祢」之間進行的。打架事實上不是在兩個人類之間進行的。所以，如果你們的戀情破裂了，請不要誤會。你無法拯救它，因為你無法愛它。你無法愛它，因為你無法控制你的小我。如果你不能把小我放在一邊，你就無法在愛中取得成功。句點。 7/7/1987 Yogi Bhajan
如果沒有安寧舒適的家，就不可能生活在當今社會。什麼是安寧舒適的家？安寧舒適的家，是一個所有住在那裡的人都團結一致、所有與之相關的人都相互理解的地方。有為彼此犧牲的意志；有為彼此而活的意願；有互相保護的意願。 9/3/1973
許多事情你已經在練習；但你在恐懼中練習它們。但如果你在愛下練習它們，它們就會變得神聖。 9/13/1971
愛不過就是給予、包容和犧牲。 5/27/1976
請記住，每個靈魂都是神，每個靈魂都是對你的考驗。每個靈魂都在測試你的行為；你的反應如何；你如何投射；你的侵略和發展是怎樣的。你在說謊嗎？你怕了嗎？你們是什麼關係？「成功與精神」，第130頁
如果你能為自己做點什麼，如果你想了解自己，如果你真的想為自己創造任何東西，那就試著制定一個計劃，擁有一個安寧舒適的家和一個安寧舒適的伴侶。當連神都可能離開你的時候，你的伴侶不會的—那種伴侶；一個不知道如何分開的伙伴。如果你的伴侶知道他可以分開，那他就還沒有聯結在一起的力量。 9/3/1973
最大的投資、最公平的交易和企業就是家庭、安寧舒適的家。溫馨舒適的家是建立在溫馨舒適人的基礎上的。溫馨舒適的人不是被帶來的，也不是輸入進口來的，他們是從出生的時間到無限的時間製造出來的。 5/27/1976
你想了解一個好男人嗎？男人是一個能夠扛起家庭、家人並有力量承受這份重量的人；女人是能夠滋養、呵護、做她自己、能夠保持光芒並擁有這種力量的人。 5/2/1990
大多數情況下，你的愛是激情的力量。但是，當這種激情的力量在慈悲智慧的引領下，將自己轉變為慈悲的力量時，那就是一個人成為梵天的地方。那樣的人知道一切，那樣的人看到一切，那樣的人說的一切都如是。7/7/1987
什麼是舒適安寧的家？當你回家的時候，你就會感受到自我的神性光芒。 6/29/1976
如果你不能把小我放在一邊，你就無法在愛中取得成功，句點。因此，愛必須戰勝它。 7/7/1987
昆達里尼瑜伽是為在家居士而設計的。這不是為上層階級設計的。它的發展是為了讓任何在家居士都能以絕對的尊嚴、神性和身份，成功地經歷一生。 7/9/1992
愛，它自己理解沒有所謂的痛苦，沒有什麼是太多的犧牲；這是一種絕對專一為對方福祉著想的心態，那個被稱為愛人或摯愛的對方。 7/28/1981
時間和空間在兩顆相愛的心之間，無法發揮任何作用。 7/13/1982
「 我愛你，但你沒有送我花。」你的愛掛在花上！你是季節性的、有條件的、要求很高、喜歡討價還價的。愛不是討價還價。愛不是生意。它不能被買賣。它沒有條件。當你為愛設定條件時，它就會消失。 7/16/1982
生理的交媾被稱為七的建構之橋。如果這是身心靈的交流、如果它是神聖的、如果它是值得的，你可以將你的生理、心智和靈性能量體提升七倍以上。否則這就是最愚蠢的事情。 3/18/1985
哪裡有愛，哪裡就沒有限制；哪裡有界限，那裡就沒有愛。 3/18/1985
讓某人證明時空無法撼動的友誼，然後再接受愛。不要先接受愛，再尋找友情；它永遠不會到來。你已經輸掉了比賽。尋找朋友而不是戀人；你將贏得生命的遊戲。 7/11/1984
相愛的人是不會討價還價的。愛情沒有生意之類的東西。愛是沒有條件的，因為愛不服從時間和空間。 7/1/1984
你認為當你愛一個人時，你必須完全跟隨他或她。不，那不是愛。當你愛一個人時，你必須對那個人完全真實。 8/4/1981
最大的要求不是索取什麼，最大愛的服務不是把它變成生意：「 你吻我，我就給你送花。然後我給你帶了花了，你怎麼不吻我呢？」 7/28/1981
不要計較你生活中的伴侶或戰友，他們的不足和缺陷。記住他們的優點價值，儘可能多多地添加。並細數你自我的恩典、你的祝福，不要為明天擔心。
選自「喚起，不要挑釁」。婚姻手冊
當合併發生時，兩種金屬就會產生一種新的金屬。兩個人產生了新的自我。兩人有了新的身份。並且它是永遠的；這不僅是為了今天，也不為了明天。一切都可以結束。甚至生命也可能走到盡頭。但有一件事連上帝都無法結束：彼此合而為一的渴望。這個願望連神都無法奪走。婚姻手冊
為什麼不玩一款遊戲來變得永恆並與神合一呢？這是一個關於你如何認識和熱愛生活中自己的深層真理的遊戲。當你只能玩一款在時間和空間上不受限制的遊戲時，其它所有遊戲都會停止。衡量遊戲的標準是你離自己的真相、靈魂的現實有多近。
-「心智」第 55 頁
Love is the ultimate state of human behavior where compassion prevails and kindness rules.
7/7/87
“Why are there quarrels between husband and wife? Because they have never tried to become one. They are still two who are living under one roof. They are still two who are sleeping in one bed. They are still two who are managing one home. They are still two; one is driving the car and one is sitting and sleeping on the side. But they have not yet become one. Marriage is when two become one.”
Merger of everything in the world is easy, except for two egos. The law of ego is that it never merges. When “I” lives, “Thou” will never come in. The only way for “Thou” to come in is that the “I” has to be eliminated. The fight is between “I” and “Thou.” The fight is not between two human beings. So if your love affair falls apart, don’t misunderstand. You can’t save it because you can’t love it. You can’t love it because you do not have the control on your ego. If you cannot put your ego to the side, you cannot succeed in love. Period.
7/7/87
It is not possible to live in today’s society without a cozy home. What is a cozy home? A cozy home is a place where there is a unity in all those who live there, an understanding in all those who relate to it. There is a will to sacrifice for each other; there is a will to live for each other; there is a will to protect each other.
9/3/73
Many things you are already practicing; but you practice them under fear. But if you practice them under love they become Divine.
9/13/71
Love is nothing but giving, tolerating and sacrificing.
5/27/76
Just remember, every soul is a God and every soul is a test for you. Every soul is testing how you’re behaving; how you’re reacting; how you’re projecting; how your aggression and progression is. Are you lying? Are you scared? What’s your relationship?
Success and the Spirit, p. 130
If you can do any favor for yourself, if you want to understand yourself, if you really want to build anything for yourself, try to make a plan to have a cozy home and a cozy partner. When even God may leave you, your partner should not—that kind of partner; a partner who does not know how to part. If your partner knows that he can part, he does not yet have the power to unite.
9/3/73
The greatest investment and greatest fair deal and enterprise is family, cozy homes. A cozy home is based on cozy people. Cozy people are not brought and imported, they are made from the time of birth to the time of infinity.
5/27/76
You want to know about a good man? Man is the one who can carry the home and the family and have the strength to keep that weight going; woman is that which can nurture and nurse and be herself and can keep her radiance and have the strength of that.
5/2/90
Mostly your love is passionate force. But when this passionate force turns itself to be a compassionate force under the guidance of compassionate intelligence, that is where one becomes brahm giani. One knows all, one sees all, one says all.
7/7/87
What is a cozy home? Where you enter and you feel the radiance of your divine self.
6/29/76
If you cannot put the ego on the side you cannot succeed in love, period. Therefore love must defeat it.
7/7/87
Kundalini Yoga was made for householders. It was not for the upper class. It was developed so that any household can successfully process through life with absolute dignity, divinity, and identity.
7/9/92
Love knows no pain, no sacrifice is too much for it; it is an absolute one-pointed state of mind toward the well-being of the other person who is called lover or beloved.
7/28/81
Time and space cannot play any part between two loving hearts.
7/13/82
“I love you but you didn’t bring me flowers.” Your love is hanging on flowers! You are seasonal, conditional, demanding and bargaining. Love is not a bargain. Love is not a business. It cannot be bought and sold. It has no condition. When you put a condition on love, it evaporates.
7/16/82
Physical intercourse is called the bridge of seven constructions. You can elevate your physical, mental and spiritual body seven times over if it is an intercourse of mind, body and soul, if it is sacred, if it is worthwhile. Otherwise it is the dumbest thing to do.
3/18/85
Where there’s love there’s no limit; where there’s a limit, there’s no love.
7/13/82
Let somebody prove friendship which time and space cannot jolt, and then accept the love. Don’t accept the love first and then find the friendship; it will never come. You have lost the game. Find friends and not lovers; you will win the game of life.
7/11/84
People who love each other don’t bargain. Love has no such thing as business. Love has no conditions, because love does not obey time and space.
7/1/84
You think that when you love somebody you have to totally follow him or her. No, that’s not love. When you love somebody, you have to be totally truthful with that person.
8/4/81
The greatest demand is not to demand anything, and the greatest service of love is not to turn it into a business: “You kiss me, I’ll bring flowers to you. I brought flowers to you, why didn’t you kiss me?”
7/28/81
Don’t count the deficiencies and demerits of your comrade or partner in life. Remember the merits and add as many as you can. Count your graces, your blessings, and worry not for tomorrow.
Marriage Manual
Invoke, don’t provoke.
Where amalgamation takes place, a new metal comes out of the two. A new ego comes out of the two. A new identity comes of the two. And it is forever; it is not only for today and not tomorrow. Everything can come to an end. Even life can come to an end. But one thing even God cannot end: the desire to be one in each other. This desire even God cannot take away.
Marriage Manual
Why not play one game to become timeless and one with God? That is the game of how you recognize and love your own deep truth in life. When you can play just one game that is boundless in time and space, then all others stop. The measure of the game is how near you are to your own truth, to the reality in your soul.
-The Mind page 55
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